Posts Tagged ‘marriage counseling’

How To Stop Finger Pointing In Relationships

One of the things I’ve found in working with couples over the last 9 years, is that many of them come into session, and the session goes a little something like this: Jack and Jill are fighting more frequently. Jack blames Jill for being too demanding, and they have stopped having intimate moments. Jill blames Jack [...]

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The Nothing Box

I’ve often said that if a woman can multi-task, she’s normal, but if a guy can multi-task, he’s got ADHD. I am about to introduce you to a very strange and magical place that men frequent often, but women may be unaware of. I’ve run into a lot of clients and friends who go to [...]

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Love Has Nothing To Do With Feelings

One of the more common themes I’ve been dealing with in session with my couples is the concept of love, and how some people are “losing the loving feeling.” And I’ve come here to say one thing: Love has nothing to do with feelings. Yeah, I know, I know. This flies right in the face [...]

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Cheating and Marriage Counseling: Explaining vs. Excusing

If you can’t control your crap, then you shouldn’t be in a relationship. In my opinion, there’s no excuse for cheating.  Plain and simple.  This isn’t the first time I’ve said this. My previous post: Life is Short, Have an Affair?, I go off on a tangent about a site that allows you to do this [...]

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