I work with a lot of people from all different walks of life. I see people who are successful, some who are not, and some who are just making ends meet. One thing that I find in common no matter where my clients come from is this:
Many men suck at Valentine’s Day.
Don’t get me wrong. [...]
I’ve often said that if a woman can multi-task, she’s normal, but if a guy can multi-task, he’s got ADHD. I am about to introduce you to a very strange and magical place that men frequent often, but women may be unaware of. I’ve run into a lot of clients and friends who go to [...]
anxiety / feelings / management / relationship / relationships / relaxation / stress
August 31, 2009 0Remember how I can’t stand big box stores because I allow them to make me sleepy? Well, yesterday I went to one, but this post isn’t about that. Its about what happened on my way over to the store.
See, I parked my car and as I crossed the lanes in the parking lot to get [...]
adults / cheating / children / counseling / dating / fear / feelings / management / marriage / relationships
August 26, 2009 6One of the more common themes I’ve been dealing with in session with my couples is the concept of love, and how some people are “losing the loving feeling.” And I’ve come here to say one thing:
Love has nothing to do with feelings.
Yeah, I know, I know. This flies right in the face of all [...]
Self-Help / adults / change / cheating / counseling / dating / marriage / relationship / relationships / therapy
August 16, 2009 0If you can’t control your crap, then you shouldn’t be in a relationship. In my opinion, there’s no excuse for cheating. Plain and simple. This isn’t the first time I’ve said this. My previous post: Life is Short, Have an Affair?, I go off on a tangent about a site that allows you to do this [...]
Its that time of year again - summer vacation! A time when parents everywhere wonder what the heck they are going to do with their kids for 3 months. Gone are the days of handing them off to school to babysit them for 8 hours while you go off to work, we now are met [...]
So I’m completely surprised that my wife and I have gone this long without TV and internet at our home. It was only a few short weeks ago that she and I made the choice to shut it off. If you take a look at my post from six weeks ago, you’ll get the whole story. [...]