I work with a lot of people from all different walks of life. I see people who are successful, some who are not, and some who are just making ends meet. One thing that I find in common no matter where my clients come from is this:
Many men suck at Valentine’s Day.
Don’t get me wrong. [...]
I’ve often said that if a woman can multi-task, she’s normal, but if a guy can multi-task, he’s got ADHD. I am about to introduce you to a very strange and magical place that men frequent often, but women may be unaware of. I’ve run into a lot of clients and friends who go to [...]
adults / cheating / children / counseling / dating / fear / feelings / management / marriage / relationships
August 26, 2009 6One of the more common themes I’ve been dealing with in session with my couples is the concept of love, and how some people are “losing the loving feeling.” And I’ve come here to say one thing:
Love has nothing to do with feelings.
Yeah, I know, I know. This flies right in the face of all [...]
Self-Help / adults / change / cheating / counseling / dating / marriage / relationship / relationships / therapy
August 16, 2009 0If you can’t control your crap, then you shouldn’t be in a relationship. In my opinion, there’s no excuse for cheating. Plain and simple. This isn’t the first time I’ve said this. My previous post: Life is Short, Have an Affair?, I go off on a tangent about a site that allows you to do this [...]
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November 12, 2008 1That’s basically what AshleyMadison.com is advertising. There are a lot of people who are bent out of shape about its unabashed, completely straightforward approach which seems to say, “Yes you are married. Yes you can have an affair. Here, let’s help you have one.”
Now on the one hand, I ask this question: What’s new here? [...]