Comments on: The Wizard or The Listener http://www.jimvaleri.com/2009/06/the-wizard-or-the-listener/ Got Stress? Sat, 10 Jul 2010 12:28:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Do I Need Marriage Counseling? « Personal Development Plan | Stress Management Techniques http://www.jimvaleri.com/2009/06/the-wizard-or-the-listener/comment-page-1/#comment-40 Do I Need Marriage Counseling? « Personal Development Plan | Stress Management Techniques Thu, 09 Jul 2009 22:45:54 +0000 http://jimvaleri.com/?p=121#comment-40 [...] what do you do if you’re Too Late? First, figure out what you want in a counselor, and then find a counselor. You need someone to referee, and you have to find someone who is going [...] [...] what do you do if you’re Too Late? First, figure out what you want in a counselor, and then find a counselor. You need someone to referee, and you have to find someone who is going [...]

]]> By: jimvalerilmhc http://www.jimvaleri.com/2009/06/the-wizard-or-the-listener/comment-page-1/#comment-38 jimvalerilmhc Sat, 04 Jul 2009 05:05:01 +0000 http://jimvaleri.com/?p=121#comment-38 No problem Heather. I can't tell you how many times I've had clients be afraid to tell me what they really want for fear they'll step on my toes. It's OK, I'm a big boy, I can handle it. Also, I think people should tell their therapist they are going elsewhere when its not working. Clients who don't return calls because they don't want to hurt a counselors feelings are just being rude. A little honesty goes a long way, and we can still help them find another therapist that may work with them. :) No problem Heather. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had clients be afraid to tell me what they really want for fear they’ll step on my toes. It’s OK, I’m a big boy, I can handle it.

Also, I think people should tell their therapist they are going elsewhere when its not working. Clients who don’t return calls because they don’t want to hurt a counselors feelings are just being rude. A little honesty goes a long way, and we can still help them find another therapist that may work with them. :)

]]> By: Heather Miklinevich http://www.jimvaleri.com/2009/06/the-wizard-or-the-listener/comment-page-1/#comment-39 Heather Miklinevich Fri, 03 Jul 2009 10:53:35 +0000 http://jimvaleri.com/?p=121#comment-39 Amazing insite and very true! Thank you for sharing! Amazing insite and very true! Thank you for sharing!

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