Archive for June, 2009

The Wizard or The Listener

So over the course of the last couple of weeks, I’ve started to wonder about the reasons why people come into counseling with me. I mean let’s face it; you go to counseling for a number of reasons: You want to change something, you want someone to listen to your problems, your wife is ready [...]

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Stop It! Therapy: Think About What You Can Change

So a long time ago, before HD TV, Bob Newhart played a therapist on Mad TV with a new spin on therapy.
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The reason why this is funny is because people usually come to a therapist to figure out HOW to STOP IT. If people knew how to stop it, why would they come to therapy [...]

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The WATER Method For Summer Vacation Insanity

Its that time of year again -  summer vacation! A time when parents everywhere wonder what the heck they are going to do with their kids for 3 months. Gone are the days of handing them off to school to babysit them for 8 hours while you go off to work, we now are met [...]

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Feeling Overwhelmed: Tools To Help Reduce Stress

So feeling overwhelmed is something that a lot of people feel, especially lately with people being worried about losing their jobs. Let’s face it: with more things to do and the same amount of time (or less) to do them in, life can get a little ridiculous at times. There are times, when yes, even I,  [...]

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Emotions: Can We Control Them?

So I initially wanted to do a video about repetitive thoughts and how they get in the way of our progress, but it seems as though that’s going to have to wait. In the meantime though, I figured I’d talk more about the WATER Method. Typical, right?
So let’s talk Emotions! A lot of people I [...]

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Controling Thoughts: The WATER Method Core

OK, so I think it might be good for me to get a little more specific about the WATER Method and how it can affect your every day life. Specifically, the “T“ in WATER which is Thoughts.  So I decided to dig a little deeper here and get you thinking, because after all, that’s kind of [...]

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Tony Robbins' 10 Action Signals: The HOFFA GUILD

I don’t make any bones about the fact that Tony Robbins has been a strong influence in my counseling strategy and my business model (this is actually  a big shout out to the Anthony Robbins Company LinkedIn Group). However, I’m not a Tony Robins expert by any means, and in fact, there are some things [...]

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Six weeks without TV and internet: Still sane?

So I’m completely surprised that my wife and I have gone this long without TV and internet at our home. It was only a few short weeks ago that she and I made the choice to shut it off. If you take a look at my post from six weeks ago, you’ll get the whole story. [...]

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