Archive for May, 2009

Serenity: The Core Idea Behind The WATER Method

“God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference. ”
–Reinhold Niebuhr
This famous AA prayer is what inspired me to write about the WATER Method. The idea that we have difficulty knowing the difference between what we can and can’t control drove me to seeking [...]

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Keeping Your Cool, Even When Children Are Screaming!

So my wife and I were sitting in Friendly’s this evening (in case you don’t know, Friendly’s is a restaurant chain that specializes in ice cream) and we were pleasantly suprised by the service, as previously that Friendly’s was full of teenagers texting their lives away. They must have fired that bunch because the people [...]

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How to know when your anxiety is affecting your work.

There are a lot of people out there unemployed, and a lot of them have been having trouble finding work (which is anxiety inducing as it stands). However, there are some of us out there who are still working, and the situation can be tense. Some are concerned about their job and how they’re going [...]

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My Free Ebook Has Been Released!

OK, so this is my first Ebook, and I’m a little nervous about it, because I want to make sure you get the information quickly and easily. See that box to the right? Just put in your name and email and you’ll get it. Please let me know if you run into any troubles getting [...]

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All This Technology, and Communication is Still Difficult

One of the key issues that I manage with the couples is communication. I can’t tell you how many of us have this as a core issue. Sometimes I think that people who can speak the same language often take this for granted, and as a result, believe that all they have to do is [...]

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Dreams Don't Leave Breadcrumbs to Follow.

I recently thought about the idea of people “Following After Their Dreams.” Remember when you were in school, and your teachers told you this? If you have a dream, then just follow after it, and it will come true! Its a cute theme, and it follows with the whole Disney idea, that dreams come true [...]

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Scared of Raising Your Kids?

I’ve been thinking a lot this week about how to help people raise their kids. I really can’t sit here and say I know what its like to raise kids, because I don’t have any. Still, I do know a bit about behavior modification, and I’ve helped parents with problem children turn their child’s behavior [...]

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